去年四月的聊天记录
阿福 22:29:04
还有一个问题，好奇心，比如说想去看他校内之类的这种，点击的这个行为，也要克制吗
y 22:29:55
yes~
阿福 22:30:01
这种平台可怕之处在于，你不点，他有时候也会跳出来。所以就是自己努力不点，如果跳出来看到了，就接招⋯⋯是这样吗
y 22:30:15
jie shen me zhao
阿福 22:30:24
就是会崩溃一下啊⋯⋯
y 22:30:44
beng kui yi xia jiu beng kui yi xia me
mei shen me da bu laio
阿福 22:30:56
i see
刚刚的聊天记录
阿福 00:19:28
被你说急了
g 00:19:38
啥意思
阿福 00:20:00
就是问题都被撩起来了，自己又压不下去，开始焦虑了
g 00:20:22
焦虑吧 哈哈 干嘛那么舒服
阿福 00:20:28
操
阿福 00:20:45
我想起来我前面有一次失恋，问一个同学，我说，难过怎么办，他说，难过就难过一下呗。一样的道理
g 00:20:57
学会和焦虑生活在一起
上一年年底希腊姐的邮件
Pontiki moy…
You email makes me smile!
In Greece yes, there is a quote stating this, but is also my perspective of life.
I have noticed in my life, that sometimes things that happening seem terrifing and difficult to handle.
Things that on the first place shouldnt happen, we didnt want them to happen, or when these things are happening are just…disturb our flat, confortable and some times compromised life.
But to me, I really appreciate the most these times.
Cause they happen for good.
They happen to motivate us, evolve us, change us to better and more mature persons.
That’s why I told you this those days.
Cause it may felt uncomfortable to brake up, disturb your life, loosing your supportings. People familiar.
But this gives room a more unconfortable but at the end more challenging life, to new people you couldn’t imagine that they could have an impact on you.
Anything is happening, is happening for good,
That perspective always helps me to overcome difficulties and get back stronger.
I miss you pontikaki moy!
Can’t wait to see you till next time,
Katerina
《八十年代》访谈录
查建英：现在焦虑的很多事情都会过去。
阿城：都会过去。宗教里面有一个很重要的概念就是“渡”，尤其是佛教。但是我们通常理解为：渡只是一个手段，尽快地到彼岸，彼岸是最重要的。渡的时候，一切皆苦，彼岸才有价值。天啊，渡有渡的好啊！